tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-146343122024-03-25T01:09:48.100-05:00Rachel MaganaA coaches journey... lessons I've learned along the way.Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-50757093521809633252013-10-02T15:16:00.001-05:002013-10-02T15:16:23.063-05:00Best Parenting Tip Ever<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The following "blog" comes to us from the Talent Code blog. With the fall volleyball season in full swing and with club coming up soon the information provided in this blog is great for all parents. We hope you enjoy it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Parenting is hard, because it’s complicated and full of doubt. As a result, we parents tend to try harder — because we want, quite naturally, to get involved, to fix things. We think it’s about <i>us</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Which is why I love the approach of Rob Miller and Bruce E. Brown, who run a coaching outfit called <a href="http://proactivecoachingblog.info/" style="color: #3c6b88; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Proactive Coaching LLC.</a> In their quest to understand what makes a successful parent, Miller and Brown used a stunningly simple method: <i>They asked kids what worked. </i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">For three decades, Miller and Brown made a habit of asking college-age athletes about the ways their parents had made a positive or negative impact. After several hundred interviews with a wide cross-section of kids, their informal survey had two insightful discoveries.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Number one: what kids hate most, by an overwhelming margin, is <i>the conversations during the ride home after the game</i>. You know, that quiet, strained, slightly uncomfortable time when parents ask questions, give praise, offer critiques, and generally get involved by saying things like:</span></div>
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<i>Great job today. So what happened on that play?</i></div>
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<i>Do you think the team could have hustled more? </i></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">These types of moments, Miller and Brown point out, are well intentioned, and often contain truth, but the timing is toxic. The moments after a game are not the time for judgement or pressure and definitely not for instruction (which is the job of the coach, not the parent). In fact, many of the kids said they preferred having grandparents attend games, because they are more joyful and less pressurizing than parents.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But it’s not all bad news. Because there’s a second finding to emerge from their work, and it might be the best parenting tip I’ve ever read.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The kids reported there was one phrase spoken by parents that brought them happiness. One simple sentence that made them feel joyful, confident, and fulfilled. Just six words.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">That’s it. Six words that are the exact opposite of the uncomfortable car-ride home. Because they reframe your relationship — you stop being the watchful supervisor, and you start being a steady, supportive presence.</span></div>
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<i>I love to watch you play. </i></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">A signal that sends the simplest, most powerful signal: this is about you. I am your parent, not your coach or your judge. You make me really, really happy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Try it out, like <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rachel-macy-stafford/six-words-you-should-say-today_b_3863643.html?utm_hp_ref=fb&src=sp&comm_ref=false" style="color: #3c6b88; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">this parent did</a>. I know I’m going to. Let me know how it goes.</span></div>
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To see more information about the Talent Code you can find them at thetalentcode.com. </div>
Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-5063297790137320042013-04-03T10:52:00.001-05:002013-04-03T11:02:29.260-05:00Volleyball Shopping<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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With only a few more weeks left of the regular club season families and players are beginning to think about next club season. It's not unusual for club director's and coaches to get questions from families "what do we do now?" or "will we have a spot on the team next year, when will we find out?". As a club director I am also hearing from families, outside the club, who are expressing interest in our program. </div>
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Whether you've had a great season or a less than stellar season families are already thinking about next club season. This is the time to start shopping for a program! While we are still in season is the best time to gather information about the club you are currently playing for as well as the other programs in the area. There are some things you should be looking at during the season and on competition days. Here is a short list of things to look at while we are finishing up the 2012-2013 season. </div>
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1) The most important aspect to place on your shopping list is the COACH. While your athlete is competing you'll want to take note of how your coach interacts with the athletes and your child. Is the coach treating your child in a respectful way, is there feedback being given, is there encouragement? Or do you have a coach who spends her time yelling and belittling? What do you find acceptable and what type of coach would you like? In addition to watching your own coach be sure to watch the competition, see how other coaches relate to their players. </div>
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Decide what is most important to you, is it winning, your child improving, a fun season, a balance of a number of items? Because coaches must consider 8 - 11 players each season it is unlikely you'll find everything you are looking for but prioritize your list. If winning is most important then you may overlook a coach who is aggressive with your 13 year old. If improvement and learning is high on the list then you may overlook a team that is not highly ranked and look instead for a team that has continued to improve throughout the season. </div>
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If you find a coach that you think would be a good fit be sure to introduce yourself and visit with the coach. Although we can not recruit players until September 1st visiting with the coach will give you a better idea if this is a program you should purse. </div>
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2) The second aspect you should consider is the DIRECTOR and the PROGRAM. While the coach is the most important aspect, since they will be working with your child, the director sets the tone of the program. Director's tend to hire people who are like themselves and also set the philosophy of the club. The first question to ask yourself about the director is, "do I like them as a person?" Volleyball is a career of passion (not finances), we bring a lot of ourselves to the program. If the director is someone you can visit with and get along with that is a good start but if you find yourself having challenges with the director as a person you'll get the same response when you are trying to work with them. Find someone who has a similar philosophy when it comes to your child. Directors have to consider 100 - 200 players per season, we may not get it right for all athletes, but if you agree with the program/director's philosophy you'll be much happier with the decisions that are made in the club. </div>
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Visit with friends in other clubs to find out what they like or dislike but be sure to take everything with a grain of salt, everyone is looking for a different experience and personal preferences will color their responses. </div>
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If you are interested in a particular program be sure to attend their summer training sessions, find a way to get involved to begin to find out more about the program and coaches. It is also helpful to develop a relationship with the coaches so we are familiar with your athlete. But a WORD OF CAUTION, as you are shopping for a program coaches are also shopping for players. Some things to keep in mind as we finish out the season.</div>
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Your athlete is ALWAYS trying out. For athletes in a program, coaches will begin to evaluate a few things, a) is this player coachable. Has the athlete been able to take feedback and make changes, have they worked hard to earn their position on the court? If you child comes to practice and has not improved during the season it is likely the coach will look at finding a replacement for her. It is important that your athlete train hard and improve. Every time they are in front of the coach understand it is a tryout. </div>
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Coaches will also look at b) a players attitude, is your athlete adding to the team, making it better with a positive attitude or do they drain the team with a negative attitude. This attitude also includes how they handle pressure, do they handle it on the court or do they "throw" their emotions on the court for their teammates to deal with. Nothing is more damaging to a team with an immature player who throws "fits' when they or their teammates make mistakes. It takes all of the players mental ability to stay involved in a game and having a teammate who makes their emotions more important than the game takes away from their teammates. It is nearly impossible to win when you have a player who can not deal with their emotions, these are the first players to lose their positions in their current club. Small note, players who cry on the court are always replaceable, coaches do not want to "babysit" athletes. If you child has cried on the court, outside of an injury, it is unlikely they'll be asked back to a program. </div>
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Another quality coaches look for is c) focus and player goals, is the athlete focused on improving and reaching personal goals or are they more interested in the social aspect of sports? If an athlete would like to play for a successful squad they need to make decisions that are best for them and that may include playing on a team where they do not know any of their teammates. Players who will only play with their friends need to realize they are limiting their possibilities, top coaches will look for players who have their own goals and are focused on reaching them. </div>
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While we evaluate our current club members we are also watching other athletes in the programs we compete against. Coaches will assess players with the above qualities in mind. If your child is unhappy with their current club and they no longer make an effort to add to their team other club coaches will take note. It is important that you athlete continue to bring their best effort, "game" and attitude to the court. If your child attends training sessions or camps with a new club they need to come with a good work ethic, positive attitude and control their emotions. While it is important to develop a relationship with a club you are interested in it could backfire, if your child does not impress the coaching staff it is likely to be remembered. Remember, the athlete is ALWAYS trying out and like families who are looking for a good coach and program, club programs are looking for great players. Great players are those who are coachable and improve, work hard and have a positive attitude and control their emotions. </div>
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Clubs provide a service and there are numerous programs to choose from, find one that fits with your child. While families try to find the best fit understand that clubs are also looking for athletes that will help them reach their goals. It is important to be honest about what you are looking for so everyone can have an enjoyable season. Good luck with the remainder of your season and we'll see you on the court. </div>
Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-58346503975833632762012-07-28T12:31:00.002-05:002012-07-28T12:31:42.724-05:00Mamma on the Bench: Prepping for our Second Season of Club Ball<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">I have been coaching the same group of girls for about three
years in recreation volleyball.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">We have
been successful, won our divisions and moved forward in the leagues.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">Three of my ten girls made club ball last
year.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">I expect that I will have a couple
more girls join club ball this fall.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">I
was new last year to club ball and shared everything I did to try and get my
daughter on a club team with the parents of girls that were </span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">also pursuing club ball.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">I was definitely a newbie and wish I knew
then what I know now!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So how am I going to get my daughter ready for tryouts this
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<!--[endif]--><b>I have
already started.</b> During the summer, Southwind Rising hosts an eight week
camp called <i>Summer Intensity.</i> The girls workout twice a week for three
hours each time. They work on physical conditioning,
volleyball skills and game strategy. My
daughter has learned so much and has improved immensely. It began in June and
will end in July. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[endif]--><b>This
summer I have perused the club calendar, several times week.</b> There are a ton of opportunities for your
daughter on the <b>club calendar</b>. Besides <i>Summer
Intensity</i> training, Southwind Rising offers two series, one called <b>Skill Series</b> and another called <b>Game Series</b>. These are segmented out based on your child’s
age. The <b>Skill Series</b> works on focused areas of volleyball. For example,
there are training sessions on specific skills, such as setting, serving with
topspin, forearm passing, spiking, blocking and middle hitting. These are great practices to fix or fine
tunes areas of your athlete’s game. The <b>Game
Series</b> teaches strategy of the game based on the player’s position. This
training session focuses on the strategies of the game by training in game like
drills and scrimmages. Both of these training sessions can fill up fast. That is why you have to check the calendar
frequently. We have done a several of the training sessions and they have been
tremendously helpful. Theses sessions run during the summer and will go on in
September and October.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[endif]-->We have done a few <b>private lessons and group lessons</b> with coaches. Opportunities for
these are also listed on the <b>club
calendar</b>. Parents should remember, that a coach has a team of nine players
and may practice for one and half hours twice a week. There is not enough time for the coach to
break down any trouble areas for one player without sacrificing the time of the
rest of the team. Privates or group
lessons can address problem areas for your child. We will continue doing these until
tryouts to keep skills sharp. Privates and group lessons will go on in
September and October.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[endif]--><b>Open gyms</b>
will begin in October. The dates for
these can be found on the <b>club calendar.
</b>The times are allocated based on age groups. There is a nominal fee ($10). Usually there
are one or two open gyms per age group prior to tryouts. The girls get to play and work on skills. A club coach staffs the practice. These fill up fast, so check the calendar
frequently.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[endif]--><b>Tryouts </b>are
at the beginning of November, usually the younger athletes are the first
weekend and the older girls are the next. At our tryouts last year, there were
hundreds of girls. We will definitely
wear a notable shirt, shorts or something so she is easy to remember and pick
out for the coaches. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Club ball is competitive and there are a lot of girls going
for a few spots. This time around we are better prepared. We have tried to take advantage of many of
the training sessions. We have sharpened our skills and increased our exposure
to the club coaches. Finally, we are
staying aware of the timeline of the club by checking the club calendar
frequently. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">See you at the gym!</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Thank you to Jamie Hofmann for her final blog entry on our site. We hope you find her insight helpful as we get closer to the club season. </i></span></div>
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Welcome back our guest blogger Jamie Hofmann.</div>
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We made Southwind Rising’s 12-2 team!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At first, we were not quite sure what that
meant, but later learned it was based on the age (12 and under), skill level
and number/type of tournaments you played.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Our first formal exposure to the club was a potluck dinner meeting for
the entire club.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A huge hall was
rented.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were hundreds of folks
there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The meeting began with a great
inspirational speaker for the players, and a “club talk” from the director,
Rachel Magana. She discussed developing the players to the best of their
ability but also about developing good character as a goal for the club.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We had an inspirational slide show and everyone
was fired up for the season.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Rachel
ended the talk with asking the players to go to their parents or to whoever brings
them to practice and tell them “Thank you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Rachel wanted to remind the players to appreciate the people who got
them to practice, to tournaments and paid for their club ball.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Without them, there would be no volleyball
for the player.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Southwind Rising asked for a couple of parent volunteers for
the season.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One parent volunteer would
be responsible for getting communications out to the team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The other parent would help the team with
scorekeeping and chaperoning the players at tournaments.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I chose the latter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One of the first tasks of the season was to
have the entire club to either “review” scorekeeping and refereeing rules, or
to “learn” them. We had a big gym full of players, coaches and parent
volunteers. Since we were new, we were in the “learning” group. We spent the
better part of a Saturday working on learning to score a volleyball game and
reviewing refereeing rules and regulations. Older experienced players were
assigned to the new groups to assist in the instruction. Drilled throughout the
day was emphasis in being confident in what you were doing, being respectful to
everyone, looking coaches and other players in the eyes when you are speaking
to them or being spoken to, shaking hands properly, and having good
sportsmanship behavior at all times.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Of
course there were lots handouts and overheads, but by the end of the day, we
had covered it all.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We knew that we all represented
Southwind Rising and that there were expectations of behaviors we must meet.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was not just technical knowledge but being
a good steward and sportsman.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As a
parent, sitting in that crowd all day, I was thrilled to have someone
impressing on my child these lifelong morals. <o:p></o:p></div>
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We had sat with our coach during the potluck, so we had met with
her and had an opportunity to visit with her before our first practice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were nine girls on our team, all from
different schools in the area. None of them really knew each other well. Practices
ran for an hour and a half, twice a week. I liked to sit and watch the
practices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The girls all slightly varied
in skill levels and attention spans.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our
coach was great about getting them to focus and improve their skills week after
week.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She was always patient, yet firm with
them.<o:p></o:p></div>
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We had about ten practices before our first tournament
experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was an intra-club
tournament where we played teams in our club close to our age group.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This served two purposes:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>one, to give them a feel of a tournament
setting and two, to practice their scorekeeping and refereeing skills.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a crazy long day, but a good
experience to prep them for the real thing. The first thing I noticed, was the
noise.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were about six to eight
games going on with cheering players and parents. It was crowded. There were team
campsites everywhere. Campsites were a general congregation site where the teams
could rest between playing and refereeing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>The girls had sleeping bags, blankets, pillows, healthy snacks and few
brought some form of electronic entertainment. The girls had to keep in touch
with their coach and parent rep for the game schedule and their working
schedule. (During the tournament we had to provide about six players to referee
and scoring other games). There was a lot going on! <o:p></o:p></div>
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After the intra-club tournament, we had another ten to
twelve practices and then our first real tournament.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We were nervous but played well. We got
second place and brought home a medal. That was a pretty good way to start the
season.<o:p></o:p></div>
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We deftly handled the refereeing and scorekeeping at our
first tournament.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We made a few mistakes
but most coaches were patient with the girls. At this age, everyone was pretty new
to scorekeeping and refereeing. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I did
say <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">most</i> coaches.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sitting on the bench with the team during the
season, I learned quickly that there were a few coaches from other teams that
got a little nutty during the tournaments.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Some of the behavior was shocking! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was very thankful for the high standards and
expectations that Southwind Rising had set for our coaches and players. <o:p></o:p></div>
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We had eight tournaments during our season.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most of them were local but all of them
started very early and ended late in the afternoon.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some tournaments were two days long. I sat on
the bench for every game, keeping stats, helping the coach toss balls for warm
ups, keeping the girls focused, scorekeeping or whatever she needed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My daughter did not start as a player in the
beginning of the season. Sometimes she played very little and that was hard on
both of us. However, I had been a coach and a player before and knew she needed
to play better to start. There was no other way around it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was not going to say one word to the
coach.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I told my daughter she had to
improve and work very hard for a starting spot. She needed to learn that
lesson. Moving from recreation ball to club ball is a whole new world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Club ball is <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">competitive</i> and the girls, the coaches, the club and the parents
want to win. That means putting the best players on the court. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The coach is at every practice and she sees
how the players perform. She sees their drive and their attitude. <o:p></o:p></div>
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As the season progressed, the girls and their coach became
close and meshed as a team. Everyone improved her skills and knowledge of the
game. We won another medal, a first place and had some very close tournaments
that should have swayed our way. The parents made new friends and learned a lot
as well. It was a ton of fun.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Here are the caveats we learned our first year of playing
club ball:<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Club ball teaches competitiveness, hard work,
and that a good attitude pays off.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Those
are a great life lessons, as we compete in life for so many things.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Club ball also teaches responsibility.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Your daughter will learn that she is now responsible
to her teammates and her coach.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She is
responsible for:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>playing to the best of
her ability for the team; being a supportive teammate; a good referee; a scorekeeper;
a line judge; being where she needs to be at all times for the team; keeping
herself healthy and well nourished.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
success of the team depends on everyone doing her part.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Parents and players need to understand that at a
club level, not everyone will get to play.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>To win, the best players need to be on the court.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It may or may not be your child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Trust your coach and encourage your player
work hard.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->A good club will emphasize good character, as
well as skill development.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sports offer
so many opportunities to learn great life skills that will carry them on into
the future to become successful individuals.<o:p></o:p></div>
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nine players to a team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some teams had
ten or more players, meaning more sitting on the bench.<o:p></o:p></div>
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proper behavior on and off the court.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
definitely learned there were a few clubs with coaches and teams that could
improve on their behavior.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This summer will be full of hard work with the Southwind
Rising Summer Intensity Program.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It will
be fun working to improve our game and skills.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We are looking forward to another exciting season of volleyball and know
where we want to be! <o:p></o:p></div>
<!--EndFragment-->Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-11903889697981418002012-06-14T09:20:00.004-05:002012-06-14T09:23:03.031-05:00Mamma on the Bench: Getting on a Club Team<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Welcome our guest blogger Jamie Hofmann.</i></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My daughter and I started the
“Club Volleyball” journey as novices.
We really did not know any other kids that played club volleyball. I had a few older friends that
played/or had coached club ball and I would occasionally ask them advice. The language they spoke was foreign to
me. “She needs to do summer camps
with the clubs, private lessons, go to open gyms, and she needs to be in front
of the club before tryouts or she may not get a spot.” Some would even say “don’t try out
with this club or that club, it is very competitive, or it is very strict or it
is not very good…….”. WHAT? I kept remembering back to when I
played ball; you showed up and “tried out.” You were either picked or not. This was much more sophisticated and competitive.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What I did not realize was
the popularity of club volleyball. I had been coaching recreation volleyball
for a few years and knew how much people loved the sport.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We sure did!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I had attended several coaching clinics by different clubs
and knew these folks were serious.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>What I did not fathom was the mass number of girls at tryouts and the
very limited spots available.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
went to tryouts and there would be hundreds of girls all vying for spots on the
club teams.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had been fortunate to
attend a coaching clinic by Southwind Rising Volleyball, Club Director, Rachel
Magana.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She impressed me with her
volleyball knowledge and her ability to break it down for the coaches to
effectively coach the sport at a recreation level.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I liked her smooth, patient teaching style and they way she
slipped “life lessons” in her coaching.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I promptly signed my daughter up for one of her clinics through Blue
Valley Recreation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I sat through
my daughter’s clinic watching and learning hoping to glean even more pearls for
my recreation team. After that clinic, I started perusing club volleyball
websites.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wanted to know more
about the clubs. I read the coaches qualifications and coaching styles in their
bios. I looked for club mission statements.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was very important to me to learn about the coaches that
would be spending so much time with my daughter. Some sites provided very
little information about their staff.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Others had a bit more information and the really good ones had
qualifications and coaching styles listed for all their coaches.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When the time came for club tryouts,
I knew I wanted my daughter to tryout for Southwind Rising Volleyball. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We did attend some other club’s tryouts
to increase her chance of getting on a club team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I ran into some of my gym friends who had daughters the same
age as mine at these tryouts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They
had gone to two or three clubs in one day for tryouts or had attended numerous open
gyms.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They had spent many
weekends going from one club to another in hope of their daughter getting on a
team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We were so fortunate to get
on a team with the club we wanted. We learned a lot from this experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here are a few pearls for Mammas (or
Dads) on the bench.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 43.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;">
<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->Research each club’s web site yourself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Read about the staff, their bios,
coaching philosophies and the clubs mission statement. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Make a determination on how organized
and informative the information is you are receiving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>An organized and seasoned club will make you and your
daughter’s life much easier. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It also set your child up for success.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->If you ask around, be careful of the advice you may
receive. Find out why someone might say yea or nay on a club.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sometimes when you delve into an
opinion, you will be shocked at their reasoning. You are the best judge for
your child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 43.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;">
<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->Prepare your daughter for the experience. Use the club’s
calendar and find open gyms. Open gyms allow any athlete to come in and
play.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Drills and scrimmages are
usually facilitated by one of the coaching staff.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Look for opportunities for clinics or private/group lessons,
as well.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 43.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;">
<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->As the season approaches, visit the calendars of the
clubs and coordinate your tryouts and open gyms.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 43.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;">
<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->There will be a lot of girls at tryouts, camps and
open gyms. Have your daughter wear something flashy, so she is easy to
remember.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bright shirts, shorts,
crazy socks are all good choices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Make sure your daughter has kneepads and good athletic shoes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]--></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Volleyball is a sport, therefore encourage your
daughter to be engaged at all times.
Hustle to get to the ball, react quickly to all the coach’s commands,
and always pay attention. Making good
eye contact and effective listening, instead of gabbing with their friends will
make positive first impression.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Mizuno is asking young volleyball players to submit video diaries, photographs and essays, showcasing their own personal journeys and elaborating on how competitive volleyball has affected their lives and made them better, stronger individuals. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MizunoVolleyballNorthAmerica/app_142983952469978">Video submissions to The Journey</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;">will be evaluated by a panel of judges and winners will be selected on a monthly basis to win prizes including Mizuno Volleyball</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><a href="http://www.mizunousa.com/volleyball/catalog/footwear">footwear</a>.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Mizuno Volleyball's <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MizunoVolleyballNorthAmerica/app_142983952469978">The Journey Facebook experience</a> offers candid video diaries from<a href="http://www.mizunousa.com/volleyball/ambassador/roster">USAV's top stars</a> while challenging young volleyball players to share their own "journey" for the chance to win prizes.</span></span>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-91129215795864250672012-05-26T11:46:00.003-05:002012-05-26T11:56:18.286-05:00RememberHere are the words to our National Anthem... Read and remember the men and women who fought and died for our human rights. There is no place else in the world like the United States. Of course, we have our faults but we are privileged and blessed to live and be a part of this great nation. Freedom is not free...<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Oh, say can you see by the dawn's early light w</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">hat so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">On the shore, dimly seen through the mists of the deep,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Where the foe's haughty host in dread silence reposes,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">What is that which the breeze, o'er the towering steep,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">As it fitfully blows, half conceals, half discloses?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Now it catches the gleam of the morning's first beam,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">In full glory reflected now shines in the stream:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">'Tis the star-spangled banner! Oh long may it wave</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave!</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">And where is that band who so vauntingly swore</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">That the havoc of war and the battle's confusion,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">A home and a country should leave us no more!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Their blood has washed out their foul footsteps' pollution.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">No refuge could save the hireling and slave</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">From the terror of flight, or the gloom of the grave:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave!</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Oh! thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Between their loved home and the war's desolation!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Blest with victory and peace, may the heav'n rescued land</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">And this be our motto: "In God is our trust."</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave!</span></span>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-29022317842733027932012-04-02T11:38:00.000-05:002012-04-02T11:38:24.632-05:00Summer Camps and Training<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj93Dh0kTKKg0IRxXVrnqyPW-LoUchTucdaD5hwbPgzAqyKLUR3Tf9pyH5NvMEjHTKsvMc7YhPXS5oZs4e7xUEal6Z1SnveebkxwiJyckXfSI6qZeY8gYvSmN93GvzrBQZ_umCa/s1600/IMG_0770.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj93Dh0kTKKg0IRxXVrnqyPW-LoUchTucdaD5hwbPgzAqyKLUR3Tf9pyH5NvMEjHTKsvMc7YhPXS5oZs4e7xUEal6Z1SnveebkxwiJyckXfSI6qZeY8gYvSmN93GvzrBQZ_umCa/s320/IMG_0770.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Each summer I have families calling me about our training programs as well as advice on other camps or clinics they should attend. It seems that the focus shifts from club season to making the school squad. Here is some advice I give to parents looking for a great program for their athlete to attend.<br />
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Many parents are excited about the idea of sending their athlete to a large university for a camp or advanced skills clinics. While I think large universities do offer some great volleyball I always remind parents that it's more about the experience of being on a big campus. My suggestion is that athletes that are looking to increase their skill and knowledge attend smaller camps with fewer athletes and larger coach to athlete ratio. Athletes in high school would do better to attend a camp at a large university for a couple of reasons. First high school athletes are now looking for a college or university and this a good way to see the coach and learn more about the program. Second, high school athletes are now working on specific skill sets and attending specialized clinics for their position will allow them to gain more knowledge and skill. For athletes in junior high or elementary school they would be better served going to a smaller college camp close to home. The small camp allows the athlete more "touches" on the ball and also a good nights sleep to come back day after day and train hard.<br />
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My biggest struggle as a club coach is that athletes attend "fundamental" camps week after week and continue cover the same information over and over. There is no doubt, that an athlete interested in learning and getting better will gain from any camp they attend but after a couple of fundamental camps it seems like all the material is similar. Please don't misunderstand, FUNDAMENTALS ARE KEY to being competitive, however, I would suggest an athlete finding programs designed to help them in weak areas and strengthen their specific position. I would encourage a camp or two to cover fundamentals and them some specialized position camps as well.<br />
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The best form of training over the summer months would be small group training and individual training. These sessions are designed specifically for the athlete in training. The more I coach the more I believe in individual training with a coach who can communicate and train fundamentals into an advance level of skill. What a coach can cover in an hour session with one player far outweighs group camps. However, once an athlete begins to consistently perform fundamental and advanced skills then working with a team becomes extremely important. Volleyball is a game that demands each player is capable of performing graceful skills and then implement them in a game setting while considering strategy.<br />
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Ultimately the goal is to have your child touching the ball as often as possible. Even if you attend a clinic where the coaching is not strong if your athlete is playing and touching the ball they will learn just from experience.<br />
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Most of the effort involved in summer camps and clinics is to ensure a spot on the school squad. Each summer it seems parents are looking for ways to have their child prepared for tryouts and to catch the eye of the coach prior to the tryout process. Parents want to know, how do we decide what we should try out for, which position, and how do we let the coach know what we are doing over the summer.<br />
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I would suggest visiting with your school coach, ask them what they are looking for, what positions do they need filled and when they will be holding their own camps. Getting in front of the coach prior to the tryout process is a good idea... most of the time. If your child is a hard worker and strives to improve the coach will see that desire. However, if your child is lazy, does not care to impress the coach, and would rather sleep in then getting her in front of the coach will only do damage. Remind your child that they are always trying out... even if you are taking individual lessons with a "club coach" be sure they work hard. Many times coaches in the community know one another and one coaches impression of a player may go a long way, even affecting your child's chances of making a school or club team. I know it's hard to believe that your child does not work hard but it happens. If you want an honest assessment of your child then ask but be prepared to hear the truth... it has been my experience that parents who believe they have an outstanding athlete but yet she/he does not play much there is usually a reason, many times that reason has to do with the child's true ability or true desire. Asking for an honest assessment means taking off the "rose colored" glasses and being willing to see things objectively.<br />
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I would also recommend visiting with other parents, what positions are already full, what positions are the stronger players trying out for... is there an open spot for your child in her chosen position? If you daughter players setter and there are already 3 other setters in front of her then she may have her work cut out for Her. She'll need to out play someone and earn her position or she may want to consider a different position. Also, consider the physical abilities of your child and be realistic. If you have a 5'2 daughter trying out for middle hitter that may not be a good fit if she is a competing against 6'0 players.<br />
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As coaches we are not looking just at your child we are looking at the entire team. We may ask your child to work on certain skills and we may see improvement but that does not ensure a position. While your daughter may be improving other players may also be working on skills. At the end of the day, your athlete will have to "out play" other kids on the team to be on the court.<br />
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Please feel free to leave a question or comment on this post and we'll do our best to respond.Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-74682424393560309992012-02-28T20:02:00.004-06:002012-03-04T09:48:32.248-06:00What your money buys....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPjIIht5tEOJdg0oXgJhPCGo81UUDk7olicgJQ00gJcT1KaA8xorh_VZ35aH1Eo6GlgQyrcWyB3PavmDsrfHStGSX5G9fsVEu6FzCNQYayPVXtdxQ1mIx-o3nO1ECZf71MFiNM/s1600/HPClinic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPjIIht5tEOJdg0oXgJhPCGo81UUDk7olicgJQ00gJcT1KaA8xorh_VZ35aH1Eo6GlgQyrcWyB3PavmDsrfHStGSX5G9fsVEu6FzCNQYayPVXtdxQ1mIx-o3nO1ECZf71MFiNM/s320/HPClinic.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Youth sports is an interesting lesson in life for all involved, from players to parents to coaches. Each club season I continue to learn and grow as a coach. But even with new challenges, ever year there are always the same frustrations and concerns from parents.<br />
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Being a director of a club I hear from our families as well as families in other clubs in the area. Many people, outside of our club, seek my advice concerning their daughter and one of the most common concerns is playing time. I also have parents ask me how to handle "mean" coaches, "unfair" coaching and lack of coaching. I can not tell you how often the term "I pay just as much as everyone else/I pay a lot of money so my daughter..... (fill in your own frustration)". So at the end of the day what does your money really buy?<br />
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If you take the fees that your club collects you can break it down to specific purchases, gym rental, tournament registrations, membership fees, coaches stipends, coaches travels, player warms ups, etc, etc. <br />
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So what can you expect from paying your fees? Let me start with what you can not expect and that is playing time. Volleyball is a competitive sport and playing time will not be fair/equal for all athletes, the athletes on the court will be the athletes that add to the success of a team. If you child wants to be on the court more not only will they need to improve, but improve enough to "beat out" another teammate for a position. If you want a guarantee of your child being on the court 100% of the time you'll need to do one of two things, find a volleyball team with only 6 players or have your child play an individual sport (ie. tennis).<br />
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You can also not expect a "perfect" experience. Each season there are challenges to overcome and some of those challenges mean little or no playing time, personality conflicts between athletes, personality conflicts between coach and player, lack of team success. There are no guarantees that your child will have a "perfect" experience meaning that there will be some challenges to overcome and to believe so is naive or a lack of experience with team sports. You can expect opportunities to teach your child and learn and grow for the positive... more later.<br />
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You can not expect a bid to the Junior National Championship. Paying lots of money or choosing a specific club does not guarantee a trip to the National Championship. It does not guarantee a "successful"/winning season. Success will be dependent on a number of factors, however, it takes only one or two challenges or personalities to keep a team from success/winning.<br />
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What should you expect from paying your club fees? I believe there are five things parents should expect from paying club fees they are:<br />
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1) Paying your fees should include the coach giving feedback/instruction to all players. You can and should expect the coach to teach and train your athlete especially at practices. If your child is not coach able you may find the coach giving less and less feedback to them. Being coach able means making effort to change according to what the coach is teaching. Although you child may not be on the court for competition they should have the coaches feedback at practices, which leads to the next expectation.<br />
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2) Every athlete should have opportunities, at practice, to work on skills and to improve. While a team is preparing for competition it may not be possible to work with every athlete on every position. However, athletes, throughout the season, should have opportunities to work on their specific skill sets as well as other areas of the game. Every athlete should be given opportunity to improve at practices.<br />
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3) You can expect that your athlete improve throughout the season. You do not want your child to move backwards but forwards and your club fees should include improvement in skills and understanding of the game.<br />
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4) Being coached at the club level you should expect the coach to make "game adjustments" towards the success of a team. If a player is not performing well then the coach should try to adjust to place the strongest team on the court. That adjustment may mean substituting a player or making an adjustment of rotation, moving players on the court to take advantage of strengths or hide weaknesses. There are factors that limit coaching decisions, such as substitution rules, but in general the coach should be making adjustments in response to what is happening on the court.<br />
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5) If you are lucky, your child and you will have a wonderful experience, but as mentioned above, there are always unforeseen challenges. You should expect opportunities to learn and grow towards a positive end. Use these challenges to work with your child to see the positive and develop character. It is easy to get upset and mad and walk away with bitterness and resentment but it takes character and integrity to work through challenges. Learning to stick with difficulties and see them through teaches your child to work with others even when it becomes difficult. Working with others during difficult times is a skill that will become more important when they have to work with others in their careers or when then have a spouse and children of their own. You should expect your coach to work with you during challenges that come up. Coaches should work towards resolution and character development.<br />
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When looking at clubs and coaches for your child it's up to you to do your research. Be sure to visit with other parents, always take their opinion with a grain of salt, coaches are people and we're not perfect. However, if a coach is receiving a majority of bad press you may want to avoid them versus a coach who receives a majority of good press. Talk to club directors about their programs and coaches and avoid clubs that speak negatively of other clubs, it demonstrates their attitude towards sportsmanship. If possible, watch them coaching and training athletes, how do they speak to them? How do they handle themselves?<br />
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If you are currently frustrated with your child's club or coach I would encourage to follow through on your commitment and finish the season. But be sure to watch other clubs and coaches for the remained of the season because there is always next year.Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-29500132564847104022012-01-17T20:48:00.000-06:002012-01-17T20:48:17.001-06:00The Difference a Year Makes<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCclf98SGjT9-Ab4-xpzCLsLdACOc0W6-Zz-Bact2QPqZ7VGuRwi6MJoWbvdv0Ip6Jbu7pn3aVMG2dcEf6ViYMm4QJ3KSnBON_NqaHVgShQ3nI2P4l-inK0fWExQE6ryBdgwQC/s1600/dallas_texas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCclf98SGjT9-Ab4-xpzCLsLdACOc0W6-Zz-Bact2QPqZ7VGuRwi6MJoWbvdv0Ip6Jbu7pn3aVMG2dcEf6ViYMm4QJ3KSnBON_NqaHVgShQ3nI2P4l-inK0fWExQE6ryBdgwQC/s320/dallas_texas.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>I am sitting here at the Dallas/Fort Worth airport on my way to the Olympic Training Center in Colorado Springs, CO to attend the Coaches Accreditation Program and High Performance Coaching Clinic. This will be my fourth CAP clinic and my first High Performance Clinic, I am looking forward to the week of learning from such greats as Bill Hamiter, USA Sitting Volleyball Head Coach, Cecile Ryanud, Former Head Coach Florida State University and co-editor of The Volleyball Coaching Bible, and Hugh McCutcheon, former Head Coach of the USA Men's Gold Medal team and current Head Coach of the USA Women's team. I'm excited to attend and am enjoying the travel from Kansas City to Dallas and then on to Colorado Springs.<br />
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But I can't help but think back over the past year, last year at this time I was battling ovarian cancer as well as some professional challenges. My condition left me weak and fearful of traveling. My last trip was to Atlanta, Georgia in late June/early July for the Junior National Championship with my U17 and U16 teams. I was still having chemo with a final treatment scheduled when I returned. I loved every minute of it and enjoyed the girls immensely but my body ached every moment. I think back now and can not believe I have made it through, regardless of anything in my life I am alive and healthy, I live every day joyful of God's protection and the lessons He taught me along the way.<br />
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Today, as I sit in the T.G.I Fridays, I think "what a difference a year makes"! I am excited to be flying, knowing I am capable of handling any unforeseen circumstances. I'm anxious to attend the coaching clinics and to be rejuvenated by spending time with others who are just as passionate as myself. I am happy to see a good friend who happens to live there. And I am back on track with the vision I have had for this club.<br />
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This past year solidified my vision for Southwind Rising, I have always envisioned a club that trained and developed elite athletes and nationally competitive teams and did so while teaching the best of who we are meant to become. In a world full of sports scandals, I just read an article on the plane about a defense attorney who defends professional athletes who have gotten themselves in trouble, and questionable character in our own small volleyball community that it is some times hard to justify participating in youth sports at all. But I am certain that this is where I am meant to be.<br />
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As I worked through this past year, from my initial diagnosis, to professional challenges, to chemo treatments, to re-developing and re-branding the club I realized I have used all the qualities I want to teach our athletes. Words like Courage, Honesty, Integrity, Character, Fight, Determination have deeper meaning and as I look around this world we need to use all we have at our disposal to teach and train these qualities.<br />
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My hope is that people can look at this organization from myself down to the coaches and on to the players and their families and see these qualities. We are in a rebuilding year, we have talented athletes who need more volleyball training, but it will come through commitment, dedication, and hard work. When I wanted to give up, it was my years of training as an athlete that would not allow me to quit and lay down. These qualities are all a part of success and I know, from personal experience, that they are success in and of themselves. As the season begins and we see the challenges that face us I know that if we all make a commitment to become better, if we all dedicate our time and energy, if we all work hard success will follow.<br />
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Teaching and training takes time, it doesn't happen over night, you can not cheat to get to the top. If you do cheat in order to reach the goal of winning then it is not really winning. I recently posted a Nike commercial on our club's Facebook page that features Priscilla Lopes-Schliep, Canadian track star, she makes a comment "a true athlete is someone who can take a win and take a defeat... it's not gonna be easy". But doing things the "right" way makes you a winner, being honesty, staying positive, and treating others with respect shows true character. At the end of the day you have to be able to look your opponents in the eye, win, lose, or draw. Avoiding eye contact shows shame and embarrassment, being a person of integrity gives you the ability and confidence of looking someone in the eyes. <br />
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It was a rough year but in the end there was purpose in the challenges. With renewed strength and a return to the original vision Southwind Volleyball is rising... welcome to the "new" Southwind Rising.Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-80085881685104397242012-01-06T18:00:00.004-06:002012-01-06T18:23:09.676-06:00What to Expect at a One Day Tournament<div style="font-family: Helvetica;">1. Its a long day - matches usually start at 8am and run till 5 or 6pm</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
2. The girls will need to eat and drink through out the day - some times they will have 5min to grab a quick snack. ( make it healthy so they keep their energy all day)</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
3. Lunch - the girls will not have time to leave and each lunch - pack a lunch, some locations will have a snack bar. The girls like to share snacks during their lunch with each other. ( pretzels, grapes, granola ect...)</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
4. Have your daughter bring a blanket or a pillow to sit on as they usually make a small camp they go to in between matches.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
5. Usually the girls do not have a lot of time off the court they are usually playing or refereeing most of the time. Usually get one long break of about 45 min and the rest are short 5 min breaks.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
6. If they are not playing or refereeing or eating then they will be cheering on other teams from Southwind Rising.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
7. Parents - Bring chairs - Bleachers get HARD - can be set up around the girls camp sight for relaxing in between games.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
8. If you don't want your daughter to drop it or break it or loose it.. Don't bring it.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
9. The girls will be refereeing. They will make bad calls and they will have bad calls go against them.... smile and move on.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
10. Make a list so you dont forget anything. ( see below)</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
11. Typically day is: 7am - arrive at location</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 8am - play first game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 8:50am - referee game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 9:40am - play 2nd game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 10:30am - play 3rd game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 11:20am - break</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 12:10pm - referee game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 1:00pm - play 4 th game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 1:50pm - short break</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 2:00pm - start bracket play</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 2:50pm - play 2nd game after winning first game</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 3:40pm - play semi final</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 4:30pm play final</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"> 5:30pm pack up and head home ( your daughter will be tired and hungry)</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
PS.. if you loose in bracket play you have to stay and referee the next game.... not fun.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
8pm - get home after stopping for dinner, sit down and relax. Take a min to think about all the fun your daughter had today and look forward to the next one.</div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Hair Ties<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Brush<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Feminine Care Products<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Pain Relievers ( Advil/Tylenol)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Snacks/ Not junk food<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Drinks and Water bottle<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Lunch<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Pillow or blanket<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; line-height: 115%;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 115%;">Chair – for parent<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><br />
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<span style="line-height: 115%;">Thank you to John Bowen, parent rep U13-1, for taking some time to write out some insights he has learned from past experiences. </span></div></div><div style="font-family: Helvetica;"></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-1237806845084501902011-12-18T00:31:00.004-06:002011-12-18T00:43:57.186-06:00Remember What It's All About<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgw4xrvUSBv21Yz0-Zvn2e8dv9C0bZIPE6AKkjXZh4qZhbTRhJt_UvKWMyLGyP_6ZgBwX5UzocKZ5jlmTvgrURXtPDDUDNc1pxLrrIXOC-QiIRxpnTyr6125RQkKijVHrT6CKt5/s1600/Abby_Team.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgw4xrvUSBv21Yz0-Zvn2e8dv9C0bZIPE6AKkjXZh4qZhbTRhJt_UvKWMyLGyP_6ZgBwX5UzocKZ5jlmTvgrURXtPDDUDNc1pxLrrIXOC-QiIRxpnTyr6125RQkKijVHrT6CKt5/s320/Abby_Team.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Spent the afternoon watching volleyball at the gym. I went, not because I was coaching, but because I am gearing up for the competitive season. Watching teams and coaches interact is something I love to do.<br />
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If you've read any of my blogs or have seen me in the volleyball community I am certain you can tell that I am blessed to have a job/career that I thoroughly enjoy. Over the years I have considered other career options but at the end of the day I am certain this is where I am meant to be. And because I love doing this I love watching the world of volleyball. I watch the interaction of families in the bleachers, I look at the relationships coaches have with their players, and I watch the players and how they respond to both their parents and the coaches. Our world is an interesting ecosystem, I am not familiar with other youth sports, but I hear we are a different community.<br />
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Because I have done this for so long, over 20 years, I have had a long time to see the differences in programs, coaches, and teams. What makes us all different? I believe it has to do with our understanding of what this is all about. Every program has a different emphasis, each coach is a different person, and athletes (families) have their own agenda.<br />
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As we begin the competitive season there is, no doubt, going to be challenges. I am already aware of "drama" stirring in different programs and teams. There are already misunderstandings and miscommunications. And there are already people considering leaving a team/program because it has become too difficult. But there are also people thrilled with the program their daughter is a part of. There are people excited with the coach of their team. And there are parents seeing positive changes in their child because of the environment they have become a part of. So the question I go back to, is what makes us all different? How can one player or team be struggling while others are thrilled with their good fortune?<br />
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The answer is "what it's all about". Why do we direct clubs and coach players... what's it really all about?<br />
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If you find yourself in a situation of being unhappy or distressed for your child I would encourage you to look at the people surrounding you, look at the program you have become a part of. Programs advertise their motives by their actions, look at the director of the club, we are the people who set the tone of the program. Is the director a person of integrity? Is the director honest and sincere? Does the director have your child's best interest at heart or is winning or collecting fees more important? If you do not know the answer to these questions I guarantee it will only be a matter of time. If you are aware of the director's motives, and they are not driven by integrity, then you may have placed your child in an unsafe environment.<br />
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In most cases, people have spoken about the challenges they have had with certain programs and directors. I am not sure you can believe everything you hear but when a majority of people are saying the same thing about a program you may want to take note. Of course, we are people and we can not please everyone so there is certain to be some negative press about every program. For those of us who have been around for a while, and have seen success, we also have to deal with the competition saying negative, and at times, horrible things about us. But the best way to find out about a program or a director is to talk to other families who are/have been a part of the program. If you find yourself in a difficult spot think back to the things you have heard about your club director and their program.<br />
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If you find yourself in a challenging situation with your child's coach don't be surprised if you are in a program that has a reputation of "mistreating" their athletes. Programs tend to attract coaches that are like minded. Occasionally a program will have a coach or two that does not line up with the director's vision, even I have had to remove coaches from my program that did not have the character that Southwind Rising is know for. Take a look around at the different coaches in the program. Ask yourself, "is this coach honest? Have they given me an honest assessment of my child or have they told me things that they thought I would like to hear?" Another question to ask is, "is this coach truthful? Have they been truthful about the team or even personal things outside of volleyball?" And I believe the most important question to ask, "is this coach trustworthy? Can I trust this coach to have my child's best interest at heart?"<br />
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As much as we are professional coaches it is our personal beliefs and attitudes that drive us as coaches. If your coach has "drama" or conflict outside of volleyball then they will have "drama" and conflict inside of volleyball. Believe it or not, some coaches produce their own drama. I believe some coaches ensure there is drama in order to make certain they have an excuse for their teams poor performances. If a person is unhappy with themselves or their life it will show up as they coach. If they are driven by their ego then their first concern will be "what is in it for me?" Your child will not be their first concern. If you're not completely aware of what type of coach you have it only takes a few minutes to visit with families who use to play for the coach. Some red flags... If a coach had a successful team, that made it to nationals, but loses all but one or two of those athletes. If a coach has jumped from club to club, I would say three clubs in three years. If a cloud of "drama" follows that coach or any of her former players because of their association with her (not that her former players are happy about the drama). If a coach can only say negative things about a former professional relationship or former club. If a coach has asked an athlete or her family to lie. This is just a short list, talk to families who have played for the coach and you will find your answer on whether she/he is a person of integrity who is honest, truthful and trustworthy.<br />
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So what do you do if you find yourself in a difficult situation? The first thing to do is look around at the director, their program and their coaches, be aware of what you are dealing with. The second thing to do is to remember what it's all about.<br />
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It is about the athlete and the experience they have playing club ball. It is about developing young people to be confident and successful. It is about being people of character and integrity. Playing sports can teach our children very negative qualities or the very best of what we are meant to become.<br />
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The past year, for me, was very difficult in many ways but in the end it was one of the best years of my life. I have heard the term "the gift of cancer", can't say I really like it, but I now understand it. I am determined even more to be a person of integrity, to be honest, and to live my life to the fullest. I have been "called" into this profession and I am certain that we, as directors and coaches, must ask ourselves "what is it all about?" The answer is "developing people", we can have either a negative or positive effect on these young lives. How do we develop people? It begins with relationship.<br />
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We are professional coaches and that is our relationship with our athletes. We can not be their friends, their parents, or their counselors. Once we step over the boundary of professionalism we lose the ability to influence them in a positive way. It is always nice to be liked but it is more important to be respected. Is is always nice to have families you get along with and enjoy spending time with but if we are to do our jobs, for the benefit of your children, it is more important that we draw some boundaries. It is always nice to have players return to us but in the end we have to let our athletes move on, if a coach can not allow your child to move to a new opportunity consider that a red flag.<br />
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So now that you have taken a good look at your surroundings and your child is in a difficult position remind yourself what this experience is about... the betterment of your child. I believe even difficult situations can benefit the athlete. Take this opportunity to teach your child how to deal with challenging situations and/or difficult people.<br />
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<ol><li>Remember we are people too, coaches are not perfect. Approach the coach with an open mind and believe and hope for the best. Most of us do not want to deal with conflict so come to us for clarification before you become upset, angry, frustrated, or defensive. </li>
<li>Set up a time to meet, do not spring a meeting on your coach or director.</li>
<li>The goal is to work together for your child. Most teams have 8 - 11 players and it is impossible to play every child every minute of a match. You are looking out for your child while we are looking out for all the athletes and the team as a whole. Ask questions like "what does my daughter need to improve on to be on the court?" What else can we do to help her become a better volleyball athlete?" "Can you clarify your goals as the coach for the team and my daughter?" </li>
<li>Remember who you are dealing with, what is the track record for the coach and director? Are they known to be open and to work towards resolution? Or is their history been "drama" filled and they are always right and never wrong? </li>
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</div><div>After visiting with the coach or director, remind yourself, it's not always about the winning but it is always about developing people. Move forward with that thought and make decisions based on the qualities you'd like to see in your child. Challenges don't develop character they show character... what type of character do you want your child to have? </div><div><br />
</div><div>This past year was truly a blessing and I can speak from personal experience about challenges and character. When I was not able to fight for myself, when others where taking advantage of my illness, when life wasn't fair it would have been easy to become negative, vindictive, and quit. I looked at the illness and the people taking advantage of my situation and realized what and who I was dealing with. Regardless of what was surrounding me I chose to be positive, I chose to be fair and honest, I chose to stay and do what I have been "called" to do. I would not have been able to do those things without some good friends, friends who said things like, "do the right thing", "walk in love", "take the high road". I would not have come through to this side without my personal belief in God. I held on to what was good, and right and just and in the end it has all worked out better than I could have expected. </div><div><br />
</div><div>So if you find yourself in a tough situation surround yourself with good people, remember your own character and what you'd like your child to see and become, and trust that next year at this time things will be better than you could have imagined. </div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-82652059457251845302011-11-01T18:22:00.000-05:002011-11-01T18:22:42.955-05:00More Insights before Club SeasonIf you have never played Club, you may find getting started overwhelming. Club volleyball is very much like "premier" or “select” soccer. However, some teams are more premier than others. <br />
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It is possible to play other sports (basketball, soccer, etc.) during the winter along with Club volleyball, but you should check the level of commitment required for the club/team you are interested in.<br />
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You certainly do not need to join my club - a Club is only as good as the coach you get, and the quality of the organization. And clubs are not always consistent from year to year. In fact this year, 2011, has experienced a great deal of change in club volleyball in the Kansas City area. <br />
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Speaking as a parent, I found it helpful to find a club that practices near my home, and a team with other parents that my child could carpool with. <br />
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Club volleyball is run through a single organization, the USVBA. The Heart of America Chapter is the local governing body. <a href="http://www.hoavb.org/">http://www.hoavb.org</a> . The age groups are listed under: Juniors. Clubs are also listed there. <br />
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Club volleyball has several stages: Open Gyms, Tryouts, and Tournaments. <br />
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OPEN GYMS: <br />
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OPEN GYMS occur BEFORE tryouts. This is your opportunity to try the Club experience, evaluate clubs and coaches, and get some court time. HOA-sanctioned open gyms are listed on <a href="http://www.hoavb.org/">http://www.hoavb.org</a>. They are also listed on the websites for each of the clubs. Most if not all clubs charge a fee of about $5 to offset the cost of renting the gym. <br />
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TRYOUTS: <br />
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Club Season TRYOUTS occur the two weekends after the KS and MO State High School Championships which usually makes them the first two weekends in November. Tryout dates and times are regulated by the HOA, so several clubs may have tryouts for the same age groups at exactly the same times. The younger age groups are on the first weekend, and the older ages are on the second weekend. <br />
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Tryouts last 2 hours for each club age group. I recommend that kids try out in pairs or threes but don’t limit yourself to being with your friends at the tryout – branch out and get to know others. I would try out for 1-3 clubs. Athletes should be energetic, enthusiastic, and coachable (take instruction, criticism well, and follow directions). Be obvious – quiet, unassuming kids often get overlooked. Wear bright and/or unusual colors, or something with a number or your name on it. That makes it much easier for coaches to remember you. Demand the ball as a hitter and a passer. Support others in drills. Some Clubs have open tryouts with no spots taken. Other clubs will be looking for a certain number of players filling certain roles (setter, defensive specialist including libero, right side hitters, etc.). Young age groups are often just looking for players. Clubs may prefer that you pre-register for Try Outs (also on their websites). Once the tryout is completed, the Coaches might offer a position on their club before you leave the try-out site. Others will call that evening or the next day or so to offer a position. As clubs get acceptances or refusals from kids, they will go down their list of prospective players and fill their rosters. <br />
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TOURNAMENTS: <br />
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Club Season will go, depending on the competitive level and intent of your club or team until March, mid-April, or June (National tournament). <br />
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COSTS/COMMITMENT DIFFERENCES: <br />
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Clubs will vary on level of commitment: that is spelled out in terms of numbers of practices per week (1-4), number of tournaments during the season (1-3 per month), location of tournaments (local, regional, or national), and availability of the athlete. The more tournaments, coaching, gym time, and equipment a team uses or provides, the higher the cost will be. Club might cost anywhere from a few hundred dollars to over $2000. And that may or may not include travel costs. Some clubs require you to ONLY PLAY Club during their season. Other teams know kids will also be playing basketball, softball, soccer, track, etc. and will be sharing their time. The designation Gold, Silver, and Bronze will also let you know how serious that club or team is. Tournaments are either on a Saturday or a Sunday. Some may be two-day. <br />
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RECRUITING: <br />
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Many clubs recruit players. HOA dictates when clubs can begin recruiting, and how clubs can recruit. (For example, players cannot be recruited at open gyms.) So, you may discover that some clubs have filled many positions on their teams prior to tryouts, and even before open gyms. I suggest that parents that want to advocate for their child contact the club director and coach(es) for the club(s)/team(s) you are interested in. Just like everything else in life, it helps to develop a relationship with those that make the decisions that will impact you (or your child). It can’t hurt for the director and coach to have heard your child’s name and know how interested you are in their club. <br />
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GOOD LUCK!!! Call or e-mail if you have question: Max Vorhies, <br />
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</div><div>Thanks to Max Vorhies, Southwind Rising Club Coach, for his insights and willingness to help families new to club ball. </div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-80073883875759999982011-09-25T14:38:00.001-05:002011-09-25T14:39:52.206-05:00It's not as scary as you think it is.... you can coach!<div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhluzTJX8g_eGrcmCBTHBysZFXfSINi107VEjcQOrG2jG6Mn2R36NxElQyj1C6cQZz8-orEIbcAxYtLRLQfU_eZI_TjjHrbB7drhdGPLofepK6CwEY-5lGPTPhxQVThVOCufqAE/s1600/269815_10150299999201079_706496078_8980359_6202390_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhluzTJX8g_eGrcmCBTHBysZFXfSINi107VEjcQOrG2jG6Mn2R36NxElQyj1C6cQZz8-orEIbcAxYtLRLQfU_eZI_TjjHrbB7drhdGPLofepK6CwEY-5lGPTPhxQVThVOCufqAE/s320/269815_10150299999201079_706496078_8980359_6202390_n.jpg" width="240" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 21px;">Several years ago I got back into coaching volleyball when my daughters decided they had interest in learning how to play. We entered a recreational league with some of their classmates and for the next few years I enjoyed teaching them fundamentals and helping the girls improve their skills. </span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;">Then one night, while at a match, I met Rachel and she asked if I was interested in coaching with her club. While that sounded like something I would love to do, immediately all the red flags went up…I’m too busy, I have 4 young children at home, I already felt over-committed, I couldn’t possibly add this to my schedule. So I thanked her for her interest and told her it was probably not the right time for me. She was very understanding and told me to think about it. Long story, short, after a little more encouragement, and against my better judgment, I agreed to give it a try.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;">Looking back at it now, I am so grateful that Rachel didn’t give up on me. This will be my fifth year at Southwind and although it has not been without its scheduling challenges, it has not been nearly as difficult as I had imagined. Maybe it’s because when you are doing something you love, you make room in your life for it. Maybe it’s because it has been so rewarding for me. I love working with the players and their families. I love learning and growing as a coach. I love watching the girls progress from the beginning of the season to the end. Many times they begin as 6 individuals who barely know each other and end up as confident players who have gained life-long friends. And even though occasionally you may run up against a difficult season, it is always a growing experience. So, if you are given the opportunity to coach, take a chance, find a way, and you just might rediscover a passion you had forgotten you had.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">*Thank You to Rebecca Arnold, our guest blogger. Coaching is not just the x's and o's, it's the people and team, it's the passion and devotion. If you think you want to coach you have to step out of your comfort zone and forget all of your excuses. At the end of the day "just do it". </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">Find out more about Southwind Rising Volleyball, entering our 8th year of operation, providing training for both players and coaches! </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><a href="http://www.southwindvb.com/">www.southwindvb.com</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">PARENT INSIGHT 1</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">When shopping for a club, we are looking for the right fit for our daughter!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Coaching is our number 1 priority. If your daughter is a solid player, joining a top ranked club is not difficult. The challenge is finding that coach that does not have their ego tied to the team. </span>We want someone who is a positive leader, volleyball teacher, an adult that doesn't scream negative comments to the athletes on the court, someone who respects the players and others, team builder, skilled trainer and most of all a challenging coach. Someone who can motivate your daughter to a level that is higher than their comfort zone, pushing her to achieve her best. You know it's a right fit when your daughter has a smile on the court, never complains about working hard in practices, improved skills, has gained this incredible confidence on and off the court! </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">To find a good fit, <span class="Apple-style-span">I suggest you ask around the volleyball community to gain insight on a club or coach. </span><span class="Apple-style-span">Just as you would during a job interview, get solid references. </span></span></div><div>-Anita</div><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">PARENT INSIGHT 2</span><br />
From a parent of a player who played for (4) different clubs, it is nice to finally find a club that my child enjoys and works hard to make herself better.<br />
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When we began our club search, as a result of a sixth grade player not being picked for the local club team, it was an urgent search to just find a club to play. At that time, it was just a desire to keep our child in line with the other kids in her school and to give her a hope of making the 7th Grade "A" team the next school season. At that point we weren't sure if she would become a good volleyball player but she had the desire to learn. Basically, we met our goal, she was put on a team that needed a player and she made the middle school "A" team.<br />
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The next three years were pretty much the same as the prior year. All (4) years of playing club ball consisted of playing in all Silver tournaments, practicing 1-2 times a week, and no individual focus on her specifically. The price paid was exactly what we received. But at this age, we felt it met our needs. Basically, we didn't know anything different.<br />
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When our child reached 10th grade, she realized that playing volleyball at a higher level was her desire. We knew she needed help with polishing her volleyball skills, her self-confidence, and A LOT of work on attitude. By looking into a club that played at the Gold Level we knew it would be an adjustment. Going from 1-2 practices, low club fees, and practicing close to home was nothing like we were about to encounter. She practiced 3-4 times a week, paid a much higher club fee, and traveled approximately 50 minutes one way to practice. But what did we get as a result of all of this - we found a club that taught our daughter more about the game than she had learned in the last (4) years. She played at a much higher level of competition and was able to adjust to this level due to the excellent coaching. We found someone that taught our daughter about attitudes and self-confidence. We found a coach that saw an ability in a child who had basically been put to the side for other local players. We actually had other parents mentioning how much our child had improved in one year.<br />
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</span></div><div style="clear: both;"></div><div style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Our child now has a much deeper understanding of the game and has taken her game to the next level. She now understands what results are obtained by not staying focused and the importance of keeping a positive attitude. She understands what it is like to have a teammate rely on you and play off of your attitude. She understands how the extra efforts pay off when she plays today. In the end, we have a completely changed daughter in many aspects not only physically but also mentally.</span><br />
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If our daughter had been satisfied with just playing the game at a non-competitive level, then the Silver team division would have been suffice and the extra amount of money we spent would not have been justified. If our daughter just wanted to say she played club volleyball, then the Silver teams would have been fine.</div><div style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</span></div><div style="clear: both;"></div><div style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Basically, in the end it all boiled down to what our daugther wanted for HER game and what resources we as parents could provide to meet her wishes. Since she wanted to take her game to a competitive state and possibly play in college, we knew we needed to find a more competitive club to provide the training to get her to the next level. The individual training she received, the extra practices, the attitude reinforcements, playing Gold level competitions, extra films to review, having the opportunity to play in Nationals, and the recrutiing website was exactly what she needed.</span><br />
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</span></div><div style="clear: both;"></div><div style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Club volleyball is an effort on everyones part. If your child is willing to work hard, has a coach who cares about the game and the players, and parents to support the child, then it will be a WIN-WIN for all. If everyone is not putting out the required effort, then that club team or club volleyball in general is not the avenue to consider.</span></div><div style="clear: both;">-Susan</div><div style="clear: both;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I have been part of the volleyball world for the past seven years. I have experienced all levels of play throughout several clubs and recreational leagues. I can always count on each year being a new experience with new teams, coaches and teammates for my daughters. While no club is perfect I have particularly enjoyed my daughters' club play with Southwind the past three years. I have found in this club a level of consistency that I can count on year over year. I find integrity as a core value that is deeply embedded in the coaching staff and a level of brutal honesty about the talent of my girls on the court. I've experienced a level of interest in making my girls better, however, a deep understanding that it is ultimately up to them on how well they wish to play the game. The honesty, morality, integrity and fundamental play at Southwind has been a very positive experience for my family.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Choosing a volleyball club for your daughter can be a overwhelming tasks. When we started this journey 4 years ago, we got lucky and accidentally found a coach and club that fit our needs at the time. Our daughter improved and after 2 years was ready to bump it up a level, so the task began. We set our priorities and broke it down ruling out clubs by location, coaches and club mission statements. Once we had it narrowed down to 3 clubs we began by approaching each coach and learning about there coaching styles from them and others whom had been coached by them. We settled on Southwind because of the amount of knowledge the coaches have and the amazing amount of training we received doing a couple of their camps. The coaches we have had are obviously there because they love to help girls develop as players and people. What a difference a coach can make. My suggestion to anyone looking for a club for their daughter is to do your research, volleyball is a long season and winning isn't everything but attitude and training are.</span><br />
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Thank you to the parents who have provide some insight from their own experiences. For those of you that are new to Junior Olympic volleyball check out our website page for families new to this <a href="http://www.southwindvb.com/sw/resources.asp?pg=resources">"game of club ball"</a>.</div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-5049706552425837262011-09-08T14:54:00.001-05:002011-09-08T15:34:43.214-05:00Continuing Your Volleyball Career into College<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghhp2v__VmHLrpb1CyJ1k_ViX-845knj3Nu8F_r-ntkBkLSl1whKcLOosTEZjUiyWkdu6Y2ZzUr86l9iJR7sme__pfi23iKqhyphenhyphenWwJuNtWhmGfapcp6Mc9UJJA4DdQBHa0Gcsx3/s1600/IMG_9515.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghhp2v__VmHLrpb1CyJ1k_ViX-845knj3Nu8F_r-ntkBkLSl1whKcLOosTEZjUiyWkdu6Y2ZzUr86l9iJR7sme__pfi23iKqhyphenhyphenWwJuNtWhmGfapcp6Mc9UJJA4DdQBHa0Gcsx3/s320/IMG_9515.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div>Every year parents ask me about the possibility of their daughter receiving a college scholarship to play volleyball. I always respond to that question with a question of my own. "Do you hope that your daughter receives a scholarship in order to pay for college or have you set up a college fund?" If your college fund plan is the goal of getting your daughter a college scholarship you would be better served taking all the money you spend on Junior Olympic Volleyball and putting it in an investment vehicle.<br />
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As much fun as "club ball" can be (lately I'm questioning just how much fun this really is... but that's for another blog entry) if you main goal is to get your child a college scholarship there are lots of factors to consider. Some of those considerations should be, where would you daughter like to attend college? What are her interests, do they have a degree in that particular field? Is playing volleyball the only way she'll be going to college? I do believe it is possible to receive a scholarship but be certain of your motives and goals for you child.<br />
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To help those of you looking for college scholarship opportunities, according to Kathy DeBoer, executive director of the American Volleyball Coaches Association, there is now $200 million available annually for young women who are "smart enough and skilled enough" to play the sport in college. The answer to the original question is "Yes, college scholarship opportunities are out there".<br />
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Here are some tips from an article in the recent Volleyball Magazine publication:<br />
1) Keep in mind that you do not have to play division I volleyball to have a great experience, there are a lot of great schools, DII, DII, NAIA, and Junior Colleges, that can offer a great experience and a wonderful education.<br />
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2) When you send out information to colleges, choose a few that really appeal to you and make those connections personal.<br />
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3) You can market yourself, in this day and age of internet communication it's not necessary to hire a recruiting serve. <i>(**On a personal note, Southwind Rising Volleyball has made a decision to market all of our high school athletes on a recruiting site, provide skills and game footage for their web page, test on a regular basis their vertical and speed, and contact colleges and universities for our athletes.)</i><br />
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4) Play Junior Olympic Volleyball for a club where you will be on the court and not on the bench. According to Chris Catanach, Head Coach Tampa (DII) <b>"Find a club where you can play. Don't pick a club that is top-notch, but you sit on the bench and hit only during warm ups".</b> Be sure you find a team that will carry only 8 or 9 players to ensure you'll be on the court, teams with 10 or more, athletes may find themselves on the bench more than the court.<br />
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5) An effective video helps.<br />
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6) Skill matters more than size. Mary Wise, Florida (DI) "If you can play, you can play". While size and leaping ability are certainly assets, coaches look at the total package.<br />
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There is more to this particular article but I wanted to share a few things that I believe parents need to educate themselves on as we enter into a new club season.<br />
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Best of luck!Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-36043199196972025392011-08-21T12:28:00.001-05:002011-08-21T12:30:06.353-05:00Coaching Guide: How do you learn to coach?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4YiHelNSeZCkpxV-Hc8FVV6onKpPOzv0E2yyyn50Ev6GWAwxQ5odSFSHMdLW7ty6RwYlL5E2Gyd9ONFbkvQYLcAOR8qHn7vHC3LxIHsLTNHAiXL1H3HI2Dg_XrRug45ifuq4F/s1600/IMG_9230.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4YiHelNSeZCkpxV-Hc8FVV6onKpPOzv0E2yyyn50Ev6GWAwxQ5odSFSHMdLW7ty6RwYlL5E2Gyd9ONFbkvQYLcAOR8qHn7vHC3LxIHsLTNHAiXL1H3HI2Dg_XrRug45ifuq4F/s320/IMG_9230.jpeg" width="320" /></a> I have just recently finished some coaching clinics for some of the area parks and recreation programs. If you haven't figured out yet, I love coaching and I enjoy working with new coaches. I have conducted these programs for many years now and I never get tired of them. The energy and desire to become a good coach is contagious and seeing these novice coaches and their excitement only sparks my own desire to become better. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Each year I have coaches who continue to contact me after the initial clinic, I love to hear from them, they have many questions and concerns. I wish we could answer all of the questions and concerns, I'm certain there are many books written on the subject of coaching but there is only one way to become a better coach. You learn how to coach by coaching. If reading a book or talking to a coach was enough then we'd all be great coaches but that is not the case. We all know coaches who range from bad, to mediocre, to good, to great. Every coach I know wants to be considered a great coach, at the very least, a good coach. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So how is this done? I would challenge anyone that to become a great coach, the first step is simply to coach. It doesn't matter the level of team or quality of league, the determining factor is your personal desire. Desire sets the stage for the real work, it's hard work becoming a great coach. To quote from A League of Their Own, "It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great." So how does one take advantage of their position in coaching to become a good or even great coach? I would ask that person are you doing the things you ask of your athletes?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Attributes that lead to becoming a great coach:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">1) Taking feedback with a positive attitude.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">2) Studying the game and your athletes.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">3) Searching for more game and people knowledge.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">4) Working on your areas of weakness (i.e. organization, communication, timeliness)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">5) Figuring out your own personal strengthens and using them to your benefit.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">When we give feedback to an athlete we expect them to take it with a positive attitude. We don't appreciate the rolling eyes, or the response "I know", or the lack of coach ability. But are we willing to take feedback with a positive attitude? Taking the feedback the way we would like our athletes to take it is a "telling" aspect of your true desire. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Spending time learning about the game, new drills or new approaches takes time and this is another sign of how dedicated you are to your mission of becoming a great coach. But coaching is not just about the "x" and "o"... it's about people. Taking time learning about people, in general, as well as your own players is also part of becoming that quality coach. Learning about the athletes, their attitudes and their abilities is key for each season. Learning about the team and their abilities on their court helps in re-evaluating and change line ups or systems on the court so that your team is better able to compete. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Looking at our own weakness and then making an effort to get better shows our own coach ability. Can we take an honest look at ourselves and can we take feedback by others we trust? We demonstrate the coachabilty we want from our athletes by how coachable we are. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">To becoming a great coach is being yourself. We can learn from others and even be inspired by some of the greats, Vince Lombardi, John Wooden, and more but at the end of the day we have to be authentic, we have to be ourselves. Taking our positive attributes and using them towards a greater goal helps us to remember why we wanted to be great coaches in the first place. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">"The same things win. It doesn't matter where you coach them. The game's the same". -Mike DuBose</div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-6271820853450631902011-07-13T11:06:00.004-05:002011-07-22T00:06:11.596-05:00What are we teaching?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiDBsNVg3IxHKvWB5x7HjTQpxxaMDuyBpoxDKAHBaLcCkUuRfEEQc-yBfKb-ro2wG_UZSieU9kiQa16lh-e1kgru-PoJ-WYzqCOzooGGAUlhlcc5y1pEt5kcwi2DG-JewRKV5I/s1600/Atlanta.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiDBsNVg3IxHKvWB5x7HjTQpxxaMDuyBpoxDKAHBaLcCkUuRfEEQc-yBfKb-ro2wG_UZSieU9kiQa16lh-e1kgru-PoJ-WYzqCOzooGGAUlhlcc5y1pEt5kcwi2DG-JewRKV5I/s1600/Atlanta.jpeg" /></a></div>Taking a trip to Atlanta, Georgia this summer was a much needed "get away" and "get to"trip. The past 7 months I have been battling cancer, and am happy to say that I am beating it, and I've continued to coach. Anyone who has had to deal with a serious health issue recognizes that you don't stop doing what you love, in fact, it makes you more determined to do everything you did before and much more. But considering the past seven months, taking a trip to Atlanta, Georgia for the Girls Junior National Championships was a much needed trip away from KC and a very enjoyable trip to some great volleyball.<br />
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While in Atlanta our teams performed well, I just wished our win/loss record could have reflected that more accurately, all the teams in attendance performed well. Being there, in the midst of some great competition, only fuels my desire to continue on in this sport as a club director, coach, and trainer. Some things that I enjoyed and inspired me while in Atlanta included the following:<br />
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I enjoyed time with the young ladies who earned a bid to Nationals. The U171 team was very meaningful to me this season, as they stepped up to support and encourage me during an extremely difficult season. I enjoy them ALL so very much and wish them the best this coming high school season. The U162 team was a great bunch of girls and I was happy to be able to sit on the bench to help coach during the week.<br />
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I was inspired that no team ever gave up during competition... there we no fits of "frustration", stomping of feet, or blaming. The girls on the court continued to compete point after point regardless of the score. Because of that attitude, I saw many teams win from some exceptional comebacks.<br />
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The great level of skills and team work where inspiring. I was able to watch the 16 open championship, the 17 national and open championships and those athletes were amazing! By the way, I took notes and a few video clips. :)<br />
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The overall feeling of being at such a high level of competition made me sit back and remember why I love coaching volleyball and why I'll continue to do so.<br />
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I began coaching with a vision... to develop and train "people". Ever coach wants to win and be successful and I am no different but I do believe I am different in the way I approach the game and the training. There are so many great qualities we can teach our young adults through competitive volleyball including: work ethic, character, integrity, sportsmanship, team work, confidence... all the positive qualities that make for a healthy and happy individual.<br />
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But I am sadden by how many people view this sport as "drama" and use it for their own personal self esteem boost. Instead of teaching the higher qualities of a "healthy" life many are teaching the "drama" of a small life. If a coach is willing to lie, cheat, or steal, on or off the court, it won't be much longer before they ask you or your child to do the same. And if, or when, push comes to shove, you or your child will be pushed "under the bus".<br />
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I believe we can develop people of character that can compete at a high level of competition and be successful. I believe competitive sports should allow young people to grow and use their experiences for a successful and happy adulthood. I believe at the end of the day we have to be content with who we are and what we are doing irregardless of anyone or anything else. Self acceptance and authenticity are two qualities that we should be teaching our athletes, that happens by our own behavior, self acceptance, and being true to ourselves.<br />
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"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people." - Eleanor RooseveltRachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-68934228304147135042011-05-17T21:59:00.007-05:002011-05-19T19:29:41.184-05:00Summer Training and Camps<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgW_2y2WAimqqWZg-MAntaM5nVc-5X08xH0IR5XILoqHCQKE1QsSxz0jwMV5oD2Xb52ydaO_28ik4DB5gaY470wb__gj4qQnRvpVJla0yxkYs5stqh6zysNUe20efiyAeP0m61t/s1600/IMG_5229.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgW_2y2WAimqqWZg-MAntaM5nVc-5X08xH0IR5XILoqHCQKE1QsSxz0jwMV5oD2Xb52ydaO_28ik4DB5gaY470wb__gj4qQnRvpVJla0yxkYs5stqh6zysNUe20efiyAeP0m61t/s320/IMG_5229.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5607886407548287890" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">With summer right around the corner many people are looking for summer volleyball camps. I receive many phone calls and emails from parents asking which camps and training programs are the best. With so many camps; high school, college, club programs, jump training, speed & agility, strength training.... is it any wonder people don't know what to choose from? </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Some tips that I like to give to parents as they are looking for the right programs. If your child is just starting in the sport looking for camps that teach good fundamentals and are smaller in size. Going to a large university can be a lot of fun but the larger the camp the less feedback any one player will get. Not to mention "touches" on the ball will be fewer and far between. I always suggest staying close to home and getting in a good junior college or high school camp. If your child is a little older and getting into the sport be sure to approach your school coach to see what they would like them to be involved with. If they are high school athletes the coach will have a summer program set up for them. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">If you child is an intermediate or advanced player it gets harder to find camps that'll work on the advanced skills and strategies of the game. Going to a week long camp means they'll cover fundamentals, athletes end up going to camps that are teaching the same skills. I would recommend specialized position camps. Again, the smaller the size the more "touches" the athlete will have but it'll be extremely important to find a program that teaches skills. Just because you go to a camp doesn't mean you'll walk away with great skills, that'll come down to good feedback from the coaching staff. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">My personal philosophy for training athletes over the summer is to take advantage of the time. First, it is extremely important that the athlete be able to control their body. The volleyball player that can control their body can then control the ball, it is our movements that tell the ball what is should be doing. So how do you develop body control? That comes from training programs in speed & agility as well as strength. Develop control on lifting weights as well as movement skills helps the athlete control their body. Jump train is important but I would suggest speed & agility and strength as the bases for any sport. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Secondly, volleyball fundamentals are next step in summer training. No matter how long your child has been playing going back to the fundamentals is important. Reviewing footwork and basic skills helps to refresh the mind and prepare for the more advanced skills. Once there has been a review of basics then you move on to the advanced skills as well as game knowledge. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Thirdly, and most often overlooked, is the mental aspect of competition. This is hard to train and very few people approach this part of the game. We spend all our time working on volleyball skills but never talk about what an athlete should be thinking about in competition. Not only should we be teaching athletes how to think, concerning their views about themselves and their abilities as well as during tension moments of the game. But we should also consider how we would like an athlete to behave when they are not in competition. We often speak of winning and losing gracefully or playing with integrity but how often is our sport, as well as others, demonstrating poor sportsmanship or even lying in order to win. I wonder if teaching the mental aspect of the game is more important in the long run?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Because of my philosophy of training during the summer I have developed a program through Southwind that covers ever aspect that I discussed above. It is our Summer Intensity Program, and it is unlike any other volleyball camps or training programs in the area. If you'd like to know more about it visit the club website: www.southwindvb.com.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">One of the best things you can do for your athlete is individual or small group training with a good coach. What an athlete can learn and work on in a session by themselves or a small group far surpasses a typical volleyball camp. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Good luck this summer and train hard!</span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-35968642399018065672011-04-05T10:42:00.004-05:002011-04-06T08:43:14.888-05:00Why I Love to Coach<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwe4dd8LLqYhY1_pZwpur_I5aOyiCNQVOHYGUzYbG8JLgUzRla5swnWlVXwBR0GHTtkNOuc1IJvxU8z45JIxHGhWj2VB6_Sve3KDyq6j99BJ3LyQjI3GpgBeBuhO0inbsrSjm7/s1600/IMG_5023.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwe4dd8LLqYhY1_pZwpur_I5aOyiCNQVOHYGUzYbG8JLgUzRla5swnWlVXwBR0GHTtkNOuc1IJvxU8z45JIxHGhWj2VB6_Sve3KDyq6j99BJ3LyQjI3GpgBeBuhO0inbsrSjm7/s320/IMG_5023.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592125843417060658" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">There are many things I "love to do"... eat a great breakfast, cuddle with Henry (my cat), shopping, working out at the track on a warm spring day. But one of the things I love to do the most is coach! </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I recently read an article from a California high school student on why she loves to play volleyball. She talked about the different skills of the game and how it felt to be able to play so well. I loved the article and thought about how I love to coach. As I began to think about why I love coaching volleyball it really comes back to one thing, I love developing people. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I believe great coaches must sincerely enjoy people and love coaching for the athlete and not themselves. We all gain satisfaction from a job well done and we are all motivated by personal interest but the truly great coaches invest in their athletes and assistant coaches. They develop people because they sincerely like/love people. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I love seeing an athlete developing the muscle skill to control the volleyball in order to execute skills at a high level. Making the perfect pass, running a quick offense, attacking for a point... these are exciting things to see develop. Having your libero aggressively get to the ball and then gracefully pass it to the setter or having your middle blocker read the setter to close the outside block for a point is fun to watch. But even more fun is watching the expression of success on your athletes face, to see them recognize their new skills and abilities and see their confidence grow is just as exciting as winning the big match. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Seeing these young adults come into their own, to see their confidence grow on the court always affects their confidence off the court. When players begin to understand why their integrity is important and that hard work really does pay off is part of the reason I love to coach. But not only do I enjoy developing athletes I also love seeing coaches in the club gain new confidence in their skills. To work along side someone and help in their personal development is really the reason I love to coach. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Over the years there have been many players and coaches that I have positively affected but the truth of the matter is that these people must be accepting to my help and input. People must be "coachable" and when they are great things have happened. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Of course, there are people who have not been "coachable" and closed to any input, reason, or integrity. When these athletes or coaches come across my path I have learned that there is nothing I can do for them. It use to weigh heavy on me that people would behave inappropriately and I would carry their failures (even the ones they did not admit to) for them. But I have learned that there is only so much I can do and I have learned to release those athletes or coaches and move forward with others who are interested in the best that life has to offer. Age has nothing to do with their "coachability", I have meet 13 year old athletes who "get it" and I have meet 40 year old women who can not see reason. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Our job as professional coaches is to see where our athletes and coaches are and accept them wherever they may be. And if they are ready to learn and to develop into the best they can be everyone wins. And if they are not capable of that development you let them go, you do not compromise yourself and you stand firm in your conviction, but you wish them the best and hope someone else can affect their lives for the positive. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Having over 30 years in the sport, 20 as a coach, and 14 as a club director I have learned that personal integrity and character will win every time... and if you can apply that to the development of people then we are authentic to ourselves and others. We develop people and we develop ourselves so that we all become the men and women we were intended to become. That is why I love coaching. </span></span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-48808317349886361622011-03-27T19:13:00.006-05:002011-03-27T19:57:08.015-05:00Which coach are you?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4-h7OfcfC1O1oAdayw5cMbu0UX-MgfwXdUWX8sa9WMn8myQp9pxjVCNm5GEn5kmZJASPj-rNSSyfS9mjtZykJ1r3GPxnkrRP3LpJsxpD3F1LLx5JYBnKNnpQAXJeLxhicnQzr/s1600/2011-03-19+19.05.14.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4-h7OfcfC1O1oAdayw5cMbu0UX-MgfwXdUWX8sa9WMn8myQp9pxjVCNm5GEn5kmZJASPj-rNSSyfS9mjtZykJ1r3GPxnkrRP3LpJsxpD3F1LLx5JYBnKNnpQAXJeLxhicnQzr/s320/2011-03-19+19.05.14.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5588917326753238642" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">I have been involved with the sport of volleyball for about 30 years nows. I have been an athlete, a club director, official and a coach. I've been coaching longer than any of the other roles I've had in volleyball and over the years I have seen many styles of coaching. But I believe there are really only two types of coaches. </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">The first type of coach is what I refer to as the "ego" coach. I believe many get into coaching for selfish reasons, to get a personal need met from coaching children or young adults. Some coaches need the power that they are in control and it's easy to maintain control of children. I believe these types of coaches use fear to keep their athletes "in line". These are the coaches that yell, threaten, and have that "look" (you know the one, the evil eye). </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Other "ego" driven coaches need the affirmation of being liked and admired. They develop relationships with their athletes that border on "family" relationships. There is no doubt times that coaches, players, and parents "click" but there always needs to be a professional relationship where the athlete recognizes that the coach is the "coach", not a mother/father, sister/brother, or aunt/uncle. (Unless, of course, they really are.)</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Then there is the "ego" coach who needs to be powerful and successful, not that they necessarily will be both but that is the ultimate goal of this coach. This is the coach that will lie, cheat, or steal to make this happen. If they do not lie, cheat or steal they will get very close to it and personal integrity is not high on the list of character traits. If you find a coach that will ask you or your child to compromise your personal integrity beware, it won't be long before their lack of character will affect your child in a negative way. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">These "ego" coaches can be one of the above or all of the above. I see many coaches like this, in many different sports and it's disheartening. "Ego" coaches will do whatever they can to "save face". What are we teaching our athletes, our children and young adults, by allowing them to compete for them and be influenced by them? </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">The other type of coach is the "giving"coach. These are the coaches who have either gotten into coaching for the right reasons or have matured enough that they have reached this place in their coaching careers. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">How you can you tell if you've found a "giving" coach? These are the men and women who have the child's best interest at heart. They are constantly teaching and instructing the game and the skills. They have a fair sense of discipline but also allow the athletes to have fun. There is no sense of fear but of respect for a "giving" coach. Although these coaches enjoy being admired and liked they are also willing to be disliked for doing the "right" thing. Public image is not the driving force behind this type of coach; personal confidence, satisfaction, and integrity are the things that drives this coach. A "giving" coach will make decisions that are best for the athlete and team without lying, cheating or steal. Their personal integrity is more important than power, winning or being admired. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">What type of coach are you? </span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-70320866520909727142010-11-28T15:39:00.008-06:002010-11-28T23:03:29.732-06:00Vision for Southwind<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBsRmTFHBdv1xBpfG3T4kAd6XZ6kCxwhkt9JcATO6GLtWs04L-M_YokT969Rf47BAFPO4yi0a5wvQkbuCxlcG504JrfUiV0HlYxzkpgQmOJTF5h42s3-YI14KCDm5iRt-rNTYy/s1600/47a0df31b3127cce98548efbca5500000035100AaN2TRw5ZtWUA.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBsRmTFHBdv1xBpfG3T4kAd6XZ6kCxwhkt9JcATO6GLtWs04L-M_YokT969Rf47BAFPO4yi0a5wvQkbuCxlcG504JrfUiV0HlYxzkpgQmOJTF5h42s3-YI14KCDm5iRt-rNTYy/s320/47a0df31b3127cce98548efbca5500000035100AaN2TRw5ZtWUA.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5544718668468886898" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I've spent the last 30 years of my life involved in volleyball. I began in 5th grade and have continued until this day. I have always enjoyed playing but my passion for the game didn't come from just playing. Although I do love to play and I love the way my body feels while I'm on the court, my love of the game came from having an amazing coach. I was blessed to have a coach who knew that sports could be used for more than just competition. It was in 8th grade that Mr. Shirley headed up our team... and his passion for the game was very clear to us young ladies. But more than just teaching us volleyball he also instilled a confidence in us, he used the game to develop not just volleyball players but young ladies. (Thank you to Mr. Kevin Shirley.)</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br />I have had some extra time this past month to really think about my vision for this club. I usually spend more time visiting with the coaching staff but due to an unforeseen circumstance I have not had the privilege to spend time with every coach. I was thinking about what I would want them to know about Southwind and our "mission". And I thought it has been my life experiences that have brought me to this place and has really developed the vision for this club. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br />I have spent the last 14 or 15 years as a club director and founded Southwind 7 years ago. Each year I recruit a number of athletes, I speak to numerous families, and I interview and recruit coaches. I am "married" to the job. :) My efforts have me invested in the success of every team, every coach, and every player. I am blessed to do something I love and that is what drives my personal vision for the club and I hope affects every person involved in Southwind. My hope is that Southwind is more than just an elite level volleyball club... the following is my personal vision of a volleyball club... a vision of Southwind. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">1) That above all else we manage the club with integrity, we provide the role model for all of our athletes. That we say what we mean and we mean what we say. That we communicate openly and honestly (as well as tactfully) with the athletes, their families, and the club staff. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">2) That when it is all said and done, our energy and our efforts are spent on our athletes. We all coach for different reasons, some are passionate about the sport, some have a need for power, some want to give back, others a need to feel loved and accepted, and so on... but the bottom line is coaching is not about us... not about the coach. Coaching is about the athlete, are we helping them to become better athletes? Are we helping them to become the adult they were meant to be? Our role is of "professional" coach, laying aside any personal needs in order to be the coach our athletes' need. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">3) Sports provide an opportunity to teach more than just sports. Team work, discipline, work ethic... whether or not we mention these qualities by name they are still apart of a well run team. Learning about these qualities have a life long effect allowing our athletes to walk away from their season as better people. Working towards these qualities gives our athletes confidence in themselves and their abilities... building character in each young life we touch. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">There is no doubt I'll have to add another blog entry because I didn't hit all the topics of my vision, but these three aspects are what came to mind. S</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:arial;">outhwind has affected so many lives in a positive way... my hope is that continues. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Thoughts? :)</span></span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-66392674735662772892010-11-26T09:27:00.003-06:002010-11-26T09:29:51.063-06:00Seasons of LifeI am not sure how many of you have come to this weblog to see if had posted anything about my current situation. I plan to continue this weblog but with content relating to coaching. I have also decided to have a personal weblog and if you are interested please feel free to visit it at http://web.me.com/rachelmagana. <div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-54080830165698945452010-07-30T20:39:00.010-05:002010-07-30T22:31:10.920-05:00Someone's Child<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9SRZOZQ42z-VLCJ5jH22vfMrOOl0hFSQJVFd_dXeShbwEhtepJhh_rk-bnsLoOr_zPg4etnTyZ5WtvKYChxYEBYL3s2sSA7bBNavsifgrD0-TbGFsxOKw-8U-X6faIPPH0ZA_/s200/IMG_0311.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499907430992888786" />As the summer comes to a close and with school right around the corner there seems to be a lot of talk about the upcoming high school volleyball season. I have been coaching for the past 20 years and every year parents approach me to ask me my thoughts on the their child's chances of playing for their high school. "What position do you think they should tryout for?", "What areas does she need to work on?", "Do you think she'll have a chance to play on the varsity/junior varsity/freshman A team?".<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I think these questions weigh heavily on the minds of all the parents with children that play sports at the high school level. What I have found over the years is that although I have many years of experience coaching, as a club coach, a high school coach, and even a collegiate coach I can not foresee what decisions will be made by a high school coach. Many times I disagree with the coaching decisions I see at the high school game. There are even times I question high school coaches about their motives, their tactics, their logic. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I have heard of high school coaches who make promises to their players but then do not follow through on what they have promised. Athletes are told they'll get the chance to play with varsity on a given tournament date and it does not happen. I wonder, would that coach tell their own child they will take them to the movies and later not take them... I believe anyone who has children or work with children know that the child will remember what they were told. Parents learn not to promise or even mention the plans they have because the child will remember and be disappointed if they do not come to pass. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I can not say why a coach would push an injured athlete to continue to practice when they can see the child is in pain. I have had players come back to us after a high school season rehabbing an injury due to overuse and pushing from a head coach at the high school level. I have even been informed of an athlete who had developed a major back injury, that she can no longer play at the competitive level, due to a coach who continued to push her to play through the pain. I wonder would that coach push their own child past the pain to finish a season, a match, or even a practice. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Yes, I wonder many times about the decisions made at the high school level. When I think about them and the decisions that are made I come back to myself. I can only speak to what I know. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I am aware that there are times that people do not understand my decisions when it comes to running a club. But what most people do not understand is that there is more to the story than what they see. I believe in being a person of integrity, someone who is honest, compassionate, and intelligent. I know for myself that the decisions I must make have to come from that place of integrity and that most people are not aware of the entire situation that leads to difficult decisions and choices. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I make decisions based on honesty, what is the truth of a situation... the good, the bad, and the ugly. I do not hide from the truth and I am willing to look at myself in the midst of a difficult situation. I am also keenly aware that other people do not know the truth or are made aware of only part of the story. So in making difficult decisions I must know it is the "right" decision whether it is popular or not. I must stand by that decision when others disagree and are vocal about their disagreement. But as a woman of integrity it is not may place to persuade the world that I have made the "right" decision I must know that I have done the right thing. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I am compassionate about the decisions to be made. How does this affect the people involved? I am responsible for the players, the coaches, and the club as well as myself. I have a very good friend who also runs her own business and just the other day she told me "I am the one taking the risk. I am the business owner and it comes back on me. I have to make the best and difficult decisions, especially when it is not popular." She was right, my responsibilities are wide and cover many people including myself. I have to consider more than just my emotions, I have to consider many people and because of that someone is bound to feel they have been slighted. The decisions I make have to come back to that place of integrity, I have to do the right thing. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I strive to be an intelligent woman and part of intelligence means learning new things as well as learning from my mistakes. I have to be willing to become better at teaching skills. (That does not mean that ever time I go to a coaching clinic that I change the way I teach or train. I believe an intelligent coach pulls the best from where ever they go and place that in their coaching. I have worked with coaches who attend one clinic and decide to change their entire approach to teaching a skill or even running their program. Perhaps it is my science back ground, I majored in biology, but science is about the search for truth. Christianity is also the search for truth... but that is for another blog. In science you develop a theory and then search for the truth. If it holds up then it becomes law, if it does not then it remains a theory. College should teach us to think... we should not read a book and take it as truth. As intelligent people we learn from everyone around us and take the best and be willing to develop our own understanding. But this is also a topic for another blog.) I have to also be willing to learn to work better with people. And I have to be willing to learn to become a better director as well. I have had over 30 years of experience in the sport of volleyball and I have no doubt that I have made mistakes a long the way. But it is because of those mistakes and my willingness to learn from them that I can now make the difficult and unpopular decisions, I know that I am doing the right thing.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I believe any coach who has less than 8 years of experience as a coach is still a novice coach. I believe after 8 years time you can look back and see the development of your athletes and glimpse them as adults. When you can look at them and recognize the growth you have influenced or even the mistakes you have made at their expense and can learn from them then you begin to understand the impact and the responsibility you truly have as a coach. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Many high school coaches are young or new to the world of coaching and making difficult decisions are part of the job. Just like the rest of the world they learn on the job and many times the decisions they make have more components then parents are aware of... perhaps they have guidelines they choose to follow in making the difficult and unpopular decisions. If they are a good coach they will learn from their choices... they will see the positive outcome from a good decision and they will learn to deal with the consequences of a bad decision. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">So when parents ask me about the coming high school season I can not even guess what decisions a coach will make. The only thing we can look to is their track record... what decisions have they made in the past? And do they continue to make better decisions as they continue to coach? I can not say that I fully understand the high school coaches but I do know that they are under pressure and there are situations that we are not fully aware of, we must give them the benefit of the doubt. They make the best decisions that they can and although difficult and unpopular they are the courageous person living with their decisions. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I am not sure that this entry will give you any sense of peace about the challenges your child will face. At the beginning of each season and throughout the season I remind our coaches "that we are dealing with someone's child... that this young person is someone's baby and is the most special person in the world to their parents. Treat them with compassion and respect but discipline them for their benefit". What I would say to you is that this coach, who you will be dealing with for the next few months, is someone's child... to someone out there this is the most special person in the world... treat them the way you would want your own child to be treated.</span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14634312.post-41664149336803615492010-07-14T23:43:00.012-05:002010-07-15T09:03:07.403-05:00Will the workout ever end?!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvN1pDeolw6-WQUxNVv9LMRGqZrUe7uTT8Loif2A-u-XqgSbv0igEOtPjJbkxbd3m4-WcA3WqSXGiIcJXjF8TPOKDbYHmPHeO4GmN-ih-mN8v33uCB1g5WU13KlppGD9aRCdjd/s1600/IMG_4037.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvN1pDeolw6-WQUxNVv9LMRGqZrUe7uTT8Loif2A-u-XqgSbv0igEOtPjJbkxbd3m4-WcA3WqSXGiIcJXjF8TPOKDbYHmPHeO4GmN-ih-mN8v33uCB1g5WU13KlppGD9aRCdjd/s320/IMG_4037.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5493990762843342722" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> For over 20 years my life has involved sports... for over 20 years I have loved every aspect of being involved in team sports. Of course, there are days that I have found myself frustrated or upset over volleyball but, by far, I have enjoyed my time playing and coaching. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We all have different reasons for coaching, some need the recognition of having a "great team", others feel the need for self-fulfillment in influencing young lives, and still others fill the need for personal relationships. Whatever the reason we all tend to be very passionate about the sport and about coaching. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I can think of many things that I have learned from playing a team sport, including developing personal relationships with teammates; learning to take feedback and instruction and utilizing that for my benefit; finding ways to get along with difficult teammates/coaches/officials; time management; and a great work ethic. To this day I continue to add physical fitness to my already busy schedule. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Having spent the last 20 years training athletes I have never been able to pay for a trainer or a gym membership for that matter. I have all the knowledge to train myself... question is, do I have the discipline it takes to actually get and stay in shape? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Each summer I make an effort to get back in shape. For some reason, there is a huge misconception about coaches... Since we are in the gym so often many people mistake us for being in shape, but the mere presence of a coach in a gym does not mean we are actually in shape. :) More often than not we are training others to be in shape but our own health is not always on the top of our priority list. As I get older I recognize the importance of maintaining my health and have made a more consist effort in maintaining my physical fitness. Each summer I begin my regime of walking, running, "stairs" and overall physical fitness training and every summer I have to talk myself into doing my workouts. Will this effort of convincing myself to workout ever end? ugghhh! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">As I drive to the track field, which is where I do my personal training, I have to say things to myself including "you'll feel better after you do this", "think of all the athlete's you training and how good they look, don't you want to look the same", "size 8, size 8, size 8". As I begin my run my self talk continues, "we are temples of the Most High, it's our duty to stay in shape", "your stomach is finally going down", "the body is meant to be used, so keep running". </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Where is that self discipline I had as a young adult? I could run and run without thought and train for hours in the gym. I wonder where it went... I wonder is it still there... I wonder how I can tell my athletes to work hard and stay in the drills if I am not able to finish my laps? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Being a coach does not mean we have to be the best athlete on the court, although some coaches do feel the need to feed their personal ego by being the best athlete on the court, but that does not mean we have to be great athletes in order to be great coaches. Being a great coach involves so many other aspects... rapport with our athletes, ability to communicate clearly, organizational skills, teaching skills.... and more. However, when I think back to my playing days it was a hard sell to respect a coach who was not, at the very least, in shape. Then I think about my athletes... I ask them to work harder than they have, I ask them to train longer than they have, and I ask them to perform skills beyond their current ability and they do all these things and more. I am so very proud of the athletes I coach as well as all the athletes involved in our club programs. Then I think about my own training....</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">When I go for my runs there are times I don't feel like training but then I think about what I ask from my athletes and what I expect from them. I want more from them than they want for themselves and I demand more from them than other coaches have. If I can demand more from them than why not myself? If I expect their respect than I must earn it as well as having self respect. So when I am working out I tell myself that I can do more, that I will do more, that I must do more. If we demand our athletes train hard then we should also be willing to train hard ourselves. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Are you where you should be? Perhaps its time to take a long hard look in the mirror and see if you can live up to your own standards, those would be the same one's you place on your athletes.</span></div>Rachel Maganahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03658293150865610537noreply@blogger.com0